An aside from the Shami Chakrabarti row is the frequent
use of her first name in discussion of the situation. In similar situations men are usually
given their surname ('the Burnham-Davis-Shami Chakrabarti row' followed swiftly by 'the male reaction in the main has been to dismiss it and accuse
Shami of over-reacting').
This is something I've become sensitised to recently and have therefore tried harder than usual to purge the instinct - for example,
my use of 'Clinton' where it could have been interpreted as referring to Bill, not Hill.
Yes, but what does it matter?
It's infantilising. I've been in meetings where I'm the only one referred to by my first name, and my gender isn't a coincidence in these situations.
Women deserve to be treated as professionals in their public lives and their monikers are a casual but telling indication in this area. If you respect a woman as a professional, a colleague, someone whose gender is irrelevant to you, then don't talk of 'Burnham' and 'Davis' and then call her 'Sharmi'. It's 'Chakrabarti' to you, and don't forget it please.